The Mixed Vibez Podcast

Spousal Support and Side Pieces

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The crew explores relationship boundaries and societal double standards, examining when and how people should move on after loss.

• Would you accept if your partner offered you a side piece, and what if they already had someone picked out for you?
• Debating whether platonic relationships between men and women are truly possible outside committed relationships
• Critical discussion of Offset asking Cardi B for spousal support despite being worth millions
• Tiana Taylor's new music release and her relationship with Aaron Pierre being used for promotion
• Exploring the double standard in how society judges women versus men when dating after losing a spouse
• Sharing hilarious "Mad Mama Moments" stories about disappointing their mothers with questionable life choices
• Discussing whether it's possible to maintain purely platonic friendships when there's attraction


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Speaker 1:

What time it is, people. Y'all know what time it is. Another episode of the Mixed Vibes Podcast, your favorite amateur podcast, and you can find us wherever you get your podcasts. I'm your boy, young Quaggy T the Dream.

Speaker 2:

Man, you already know the bassist. It's your boy, mr Bill. Aka, say your Name Up On this Pod. Might not put you to ma. Shout out, jerbs, what's going on, quay?

Speaker 1:

You talk to her.

Speaker 2:

You know that's over there.

Speaker 1:

Come on, bro, all right man, I'm good man. How about you?

Speaker 2:

Hey bro, I can't complain, I can't complain. Hey bro, I can't complain, I can't complain. I'm really excited right now about some positive stuff going on, but I ain't going to talk about it right now because I don't want it to feel like I'm coming off throwing shade, so I ain't going to speak on it. You feel me, I ain't going to speak on it, but you know what I'm talking about. I ain't going to Look, look, Congrats my boy Look.

Speaker 2:

You know what I'm saying? I wasn't going to speak on it, I was just going to let it be seen. You hear me Paces are six. What I said last round Paces are six. Same rotation Paces are six.

Speaker 1:

We in there this year.

Speaker 2:

Let me see. Them tickets is going to be stupid but I might. If it's a weekend game, I think I'm going to ride to the city and be in the city for the game, but them tickets are going to be stupid and I'm trying to go on trips or something. I don't really know. I don't really know what it's gonna be.

Speaker 1:

At least go down there and get some t-shirts from the outside the field house or something.

Speaker 2:

My hotel is gonna be 20 minutes outside of town, so it could be a legit one. I'm gonna stay up man, but it's going to be. I ain't going to be staying downtown.

Speaker 1:

It's a hit of B-dubs on the outskirts of the city.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, nah, I'm going to go to the bar downtown, but the hotel, nah, it's going to be on the outskirts.

Speaker 1:

I feel you, yeah, I'm Shit.

Speaker 2:

But nah, you ready to get into it.

Speaker 1:

Let's get into it.

Speaker 2:

Ask, ask, george, even though George Ain't here. Ask, quack, if you you know You're in a relationship, let's let's role play a little bit. You're in a relationship, your girl come up to you and say, yo, I want you to have a sad piece. So it's a two part question how you gonna react when she tell you you can have a sad piece. And part two is she has the sad piece picked out for you already. How you react, how you taking that alright.

Speaker 1:

So, arthur Muscle, don't come to me with no damn, with a good time. Don't threaten me with a good time, man, cause I'm already you sure, not even you sure, I'm with the. Okay, that's what's up. If you with it, I'm with it, ain't no, that's what's up. If you with it, I'm with it, ain't no test over here. None, I failed test. Believe that this man said I failed test. Don't play with me. If that's what you want to do, what you want to do, what you say is what you want to do. Your word, your word, is bond. Speak and stand on it. So you come with me. You should have you a side piece. That's a bet. The clip, where did it come from?

Speaker 2:

One of the Tyler Perry shows. Fatima, fatima. Fatima was talking to Zach, but the name of the show was Fatima.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, and she already had the side piece. Fatima, yeah, and she already had the side piece picked out. Now that's the part that we might have to pump our brakes on, because I know what I like. Nah, I don't know if you necessarily. I mean, you know what I like, but do you know what I like? But do you know what I like if you, while you picked out this certain specific girl, I ain't even get this little clip in there before I can even see what the girl look like, to even see if she did a good job or not. So I'm automatically assume you know if this is the only stipulation, I gotta go with this. Nah, that part, it just depends on what she look like.

Speaker 2:

Alright. So for me, if my girl come to me and say, hey, you can have a side piece, I'm gonna act like Zach in the clip. I'm like whoa, whoa, whoa. Are you for real, quit playing with me. I ain't got time. I'm not to act like Zach in the clip, like whoa, whoa, whoa, are you for real, quit playing with me. I ain't got time. Like I'm not even going to take you serious Quit playing with me. I got stuff going on. Life got real problems. I'm not about to deal with this creative problem. I'm like Zach in the show, like all right man, go out somewhere. But if you come to me and say I also got her picked out, I think it's a trap. So you willingly gonna let me knock this woman down and you and the woman already done agreed to it. Ah no, it's a trap, I can't fool with it. No, no, no.

Speaker 2:

I mean a trap how the the minute I be like yeah, let's do it, no, no, no, I mean a trap. How the the minute I be like yeah, let's do it?

Speaker 1:

I already know. I don't know why I'm asking crazy questions before I know how people operate.

Speaker 2:

Bruh the minute you say come on, females, put you in these fostering areas all the time, just to see how you gonna react. So you really would do yeah, I will F you. You're the one brought her over here, but now I'm the bad guy. See, it's a trap. Nah, I'm going to think it's a trap. I'm probably going to end up missing out on the blessing just because I think it's a setup. I ain't even going to be able to get to the sad piece because the fact like nah, you got it, I'm straight over here, but in the show Zach wanted to have sex multiple times a day. Excuse me, if a team was like nah, I can't do it. She said like six times yesterday, yeah.

Speaker 2:

Said something crazy like that. Like damn, I'm worn out. I heard you can go over here on Tuesdays. In theory, that sounds good, but nah, I feel like it's set up. Uh, go ahead. If your woman wanted a sad dude, would there ever be a reason that you would allow it?

Speaker 1:

I'm not Diddy man, I don't play that shit.

Speaker 2:

Why did he got to get a strike?

Speaker 1:

Man, I'll tell you what. Nancy Grace, I'm not going to hug you, I'm not working with a Tessie Rose. I ain't got. Hey, I'm no sir. No sir, not me. You offered, I didn't. You said that I could have one. I didn't offered, I didn't. You said that I could have one, I didn't ask. I didn't say hey, do you want one as well?

Speaker 2:

So there's no reason that you would be like, yeah, man, I understand what you need and I ain't doing it, but I want the relationship to continue so you can go ahead and have due. I mean, I'd have to be paralyzed or some shit.

Speaker 1:

My shit don't work.

Speaker 2:

What if it ain't safe? What if it ain't safe? What if it's something else that you ain't provided?

Speaker 1:

Oh, like what did they need? Who was it? Motherfucking Gilly the Kid used to do side nigga Sundays with his shorty the nigga. Come over, take her on a date. I don't think there was nothing physical going on. It was literally just companionship outside of the relationship.

Speaker 2:

Now, something like that we can make it work you better than me. I wish the fuck she would. I wish she would. What you mean. What you mean you need dude to watch movies with you. Watch them by yourself.

Speaker 1:

You don't watch movies, though.

Speaker 2:

I'm saying I don't watch movies, but I was just using movies as an example.

Speaker 1:

What. You want somebody to go shopping with you. You wouldn't approve of side nigga Sunday. Do what Nigga no, but you would take the side piece. Or you said you wouldn't because you think it's a trap.

Speaker 2:

It's a trap I'm going to miss my blessing, so I ain't going to be able to get the opportunity.

Speaker 1:

Strictly platonic shit, bro, you wouldn't go for that.

Speaker 2:

All right, bro, you love to get this platonic stuff out. Platonic, platonic cuddling. Remember you said that before. I don't believe, bro, my girl and this dude going shopping on Sundays to the shoe store. He ain't looking to help put them shoes on, boner. Knock her down in the parking lot, come on, I'm not hurting. I'm not hurting.

Speaker 1:

That's not part of the plan, bro. It's nothing physical.

Speaker 2:

We just. All right, bro. You know how many females we knocked down. That wasn't part of the plan. We just end up knocking them down, what you talking about, but you ain't never tripped over into some cat that you wasn't planning on getting.

Speaker 1:

Am I lying? Aye, aye, aye.

Speaker 2:

Tell me what I'm lying. You ain't never got no sex. That wasn't the plan, but it ended up happening. More often than I can, than it should have how many times a brother went on a date and shorty was like don't try nothing, we not doing nothing, I'm celibate, you gotta wait a couple months. I always talk by the end of the day. She at the crib getting chicks flipped position assumed how many times has this happened?

Speaker 2:

I'm coming over there to watch a movie, watch Netflix and chill. First off. I've never went through a successful Netflix and chill. One second back, unsuccessful Netflix and chill.

Speaker 1:

The Netflix starts, and then the chilling begins.

Speaker 2:

The clapping story begins the noise. There's more noise coming from her than the damn begins. The clapping starts, beginning the noise. There's more noise coming from her than the damn show. That's my point.

Speaker 1:

Are you still there?

Speaker 2:

That's exactly my point, bro, going shopping with her and don't want to get in the parking lot after dinner Nah, I'm not hurting. I'm not doing that for Sad Nigga Sunday. Sad man Sundays Nah, I'm not hurting. So no, I'm not doing that for Sad Nigga Sunday. Sad man Sundays Nah, I'm not over it. You got friends to go shopping with. I mean, I'll probably sleep through the movies, but I'll be here Like we. Hey.

Speaker 1:

I would approve it. I ain't gonna hold you If we had to come up with a compromise and you just needed this companionship outside of your relationship. Yeah, you can have a side nigga Sunday, but you better not fuck him, you better not suck him, you better not. You know what. All your clothes better stay on All that. You better leave this house. You better come back to this house how you left it.

Speaker 2:

Hey, she gonna come back, all right.

Speaker 1:

How you left it. She gonna come back how she left it. Hey, hey, hey, I'm gonna hit you with what. What Yvette told Jody, let me smell your shit. Hey, drop them drawers If I gotta do all that.

Speaker 2:

I don't even want it. I your shit. Hey, drop them draws. If I got to do all that, I don't even want it.

Speaker 1:

I'm saying, though, if it's part of the stipulation that you're supposed to go out here and not be doing shit, don't even have me thinking that you know that needs to be done.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, nah, I ain't got no faith in it. I ain't got no faith in it, not even a little bit.

Speaker 1:

I know where my shit been Tane. I can smell it. I smell it through your clothes. Hey, bitch what?

Speaker 2:

the fuck you been doing.

Speaker 1:

You ain't bathed today.

Speaker 2:

They say have faith the size of a mustard seed.

Speaker 1:

I don't have that faith. Touche you right, I feel it.

Speaker 2:

Nope, don't have that faith. Shorty going to be out here living his life. Shorty gonna be out here living her life and I'm looking like the crazy one. Nope, no, sir, not me. You know what. Speaking of the crazy one, let's start with this Alright entertainment news time. Your boy offset and Cardi B's in the news. We talked about Cardi a little bit last week because the video came out with Stephon Diggs and her on the boat. Stephon Diggs had a substance, cool. He also hasn't been at OTAs this whole time. Just want to point that out because the Patriots are aware of the video. But another video surfaced. Cardi posted it on Instagram. I ain't going to say surfaced. Cardi posted it on Instagram. She was out here twerking on Stephon Diggs. Stephon said this is my ball. Then Offset said I'll pass and he said also good PR, good role, layout. But he also asked for Sproxel support. Is he wrong for asking for the spousal support? Cause we done got on dudes before asking for spousal support. So we gotta get, don't?

Speaker 1:

we gotta get on off set is bro wrong for asking for it's taking you too long is bro wrong for asking for it?

Speaker 2:

It's like you, too long to answer.

Speaker 1:

He was wrong for asking for it, but he was really wrong because you waited until some shit popped up to ask for it. You didn't ask for it until y'all broke up. You know what I mean? That's one thing. We'd have got on you and been like, nah, actually I think he might have would have got a pass. We know Cardi's the breadwinner. We'd have got it on you and been like, nah, actually I think he might have would have got a pass. I'll say we know Cardi's the breadwinner. We know she was, you know, keeping the lights, but he ain't broke. He ain't broke, but he ain't. It's different when you spending her money.

Speaker 2:

He had to spend his money.

Speaker 1:

He been spending his money for what a year now About a year. And Lee, he had to spend his money. He been spending his money for what a year? Now About a year At least, since what a good six, seven months Stop it bro, we letting this get out for real. I'm not saying it's okay, bro, I understand though.

Speaker 2:

Bro, how many times have we got on me? If I heard asking for spousal support on this set, on this pod and cause, I'll say doing it. We letting him get in the, because I'll say, according to her twerking on Stefan, we give an offset, a pass hey, we not divorced man we giving a dude a man that we know is worth millions of dollars a pass low key bro, ask for the B.

Speaker 1:

we know it's worth millions of dollars to pass. Low-key bro, ask for the BBL too. Ask for the BBL, ask for the B in her name. I want all of it. Do your thing all set. I'm saying like now that's what happens when somebody take your ball.

Speaker 2:

You get mad.

Speaker 2:

Go to court, man hey you got to pay me for this ball man. Nah, bro, I ain't hearing that. Bro. I disagree wholeheartedly. Offset's not a broke dude. Offset gets money. Offset still has the potential to make money. Now do I think he need to be paying Cardi? No, I'm not saying it's equal. Yeah, cardi makes more money. I'm not saying that it's equal. I'm not saying that. But what I'm saying is Offset's well off enough to where he shouldn't be asking for spousal support. I don't think nobody need me on child support. I don't think nobody need me on spousal support. You take care of yours, I take care of mine. That's just the end of it. We break down the houses or the cars, however they break down. I think it's a lack of behavior if you ask for support when you're a millionaire.

Speaker 1:

I think it's okay to get it. I mean to ask. I think it's okay to ask for it. I don't think he should get it. That sounds a little better.

Speaker 2:

Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1:

Like he upset, he upset and he hurt. Steph took your ball. You never going to see that ball again, by the way, and if you do, if you see that ball again, it'll be hey you better go fuck a sister or something.

Speaker 2:

According to FinanceMonthlycom, Offset is worth around $32 million. You think a man that's worth $32 million should have the gall to ask for sponsor support? You got millions in the bank. I think it's up to Baggins.

Speaker 1:

It's all set. We're talking about the man with the breakup king.

Speaker 2:

Hey bro, look at his life right now, with the king dead.

Speaker 1:

He really be texting her and be like come on, man, you taking it a little too far.

Speaker 2:

Alright, alright. So the passive aggressive you know, stefan did, posted the upset, responded how you feel about that? You think you think either one of them, corny, you think it's just like, hey, this is what we doing that's the new thing.

Speaker 1:

That was that started off the streamers university. So I think it's just like, hey, this is what we're doing. Nah, that's the new thing now, that started off the streamers' university. So I think it is relevant. We keep it going for a little minute. Everybody is going to be talking about my ball this, my ball that for the next couple weeks.

Speaker 2:

Okay, well, taking it to social media in general, do you think it's corny?

Speaker 1:

Nah, Nah, not really. I mean, maybe a woman don't like to be referred to as a ball, but I mean just don't do it to her face, Shit.

Speaker 2:

I mean shit. They do it on social media. It's basically to her face. I, to me, I think internet stuff is, I feel like it's corny, but the more I think about it, I guess that's the age we live in. We live in a social media world now and I mean I done posted some shit too, but I don't feel like I done posted some back-and-forth type shit, but social. I guess I don't I be forgetting that we live in a social media world and that's what people do we basically grew up in. We basically grew up in this generation. I guess technically I'm a little older than you. My generation was the last generation. Well, I guess you too was like one of the last that could go outside and play. We weren't all just sitting around a video game.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, I mean, but we did that after the video game. You know, eventually Like that's middle high school shit. But when you was young, shit, fourth, fifth, sixth grade, you know you outside yeah and they and I'm thinking that goes along with the video games.

Speaker 2:

It goes along with social media, like hell. I was thinking facebook. I'm telling my son earlier uh, yesterday or whatever day it was talking about instagram. I was like I don't think instagram's around when lebron first got in the league. Then I looked it up, it was they started. Uh, I think the same year. Same year lebron got in the league, instagram started instagram Instagram started Instagram that old Bro. I didn't think Instagram was that old.

Speaker 1:

Low-key. I thought Instagram was like 11, 12, for real.

Speaker 2:

Bro, I was thinking 12 to 15. Because Bron had been in the league 21. It's 20 or 21. Bron been in the league that long.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, 22.

Speaker 2:

Since 03. So this will be his 22nd year starting. Yeah, so it. Instagram started when lebron got in the league and I was telling my son, like we really have all these social media stuff that y'all got now, the tiktoks and youtubes and all that.

Speaker 1:

That stuff went around when I was a kid yeah, well, youtube was like 06 05, maybe a little bit before that. I mean, it started before that, but shit didn't get popular today. I know Instagram didn't get popular until like 10, 11 for sure.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I was telling him like Facebook was really for college students who was keeping up with their friends. Now everybody and their mama got a Facebook. That used to be a thing. But my point to saying that is people do that now on social media, so I guess it's not corny, it's common.

Speaker 1:

I don't know dude.

Speaker 2:

Two grown men going back and forth on social media.

Speaker 1:

I mean, but they going back and forth about their ball.

Speaker 2:

They going back and forth about corny.

Speaker 1:

Somebody's ball.

Speaker 2:

True, that is true, I think. But I would say it is right though it is kind of like it is good piano, it is a good roll out, cardi. Better have a good album coming this summer is that when it's coming?

Speaker 1:

is that the expectation we don't have our musical expert on today, but is that when Cardi dropping? I'm assuming the expectation we don't have our musical expert on today, but is that when Cardi dropping?

Speaker 2:

I'm assuming the way this is building up, I'm thinking they got to have at least a single. But hell, Cardi done had a bunch of singles over the past six, seven years. Cardi ain't dropped that. Cardi hasn't dropped an album since Bodak Yellow.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, I mean, she don't have to, though.

Speaker 2:

She just dropped a bunch of singles. I'm thinking at least another single's coming or, I'm hoping, an album. I hope she's coming out with an album.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, bro, I'm not holding my breath on it. Yeah, I'm still going to listen to the real. The real. I'm still gonna listen to the real. Glow gonna drop. I'm gonna listen to Glow Uh.

Speaker 2:

She got one album, 39 singles.

Speaker 1:

That's nuts.

Speaker 2:

Bro, Wow, Alright, Ben Um Moving on Speaking of couples and Somebody's actually dropping the album, even though I thought she was retired from music. Tiana Taylor, she's dropping the album. She dropped the whole video growing up from the album. The only thing people's talking about is her and Aaron Fury, aka Mufasa. In the videos you know getting high and steaming kissing and all that. You can't get the Barola for the album I'm leaning towards. I think it's smart to capitalize on what's in the news. If you got some music and you already did the whole let Mufasa blow my back out in peace. You already dropped that and had social media buzzing. Why not use it to help promote the album?

Speaker 1:

I mean, yeah, that's your world right now, that's what you got going on, yeah.

Speaker 2:

I think Tiana Taylor is. I think it was a smart rollout. I'm excited I'm armed in. I like Tiana Taylor's last. I think it was a smart rollout. I'm excited. I'm an R&B head. I like Tiana Taylor's last album Well, actually her last two albums. I like both of her last two albums. So I'm excited to hear the music and I'm excited. You know, she in a happy, like you said, she's at her world right now. She in a happy, a new place, I guess a happy place with her and the dude. I want to see if it reflects into the music, Because Tiana Taylor makes some good music. Everybody thinks about her as the dancer and she acts. She makes a lot of good. She makes good music. So I'm excited to see if it reflects into the music.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, I mean me personally. You know that ain't I, already know that ain't me, that ain't me listening to, especially not on Tiana Taylor, Like I ain't doubting her music good.

Speaker 2:

Bruh, you gotta give it a chance. I mean I done.

Speaker 1:

Heard what she was on Bad with Wale. I heard that one single that didn't count you on Bad. She was on Bad. No, she wasn't. Tiana Taylor ain't on Bad. She was on bad. No, she wasn't. Tiana Taylor ain't on bad. Who is it?

Speaker 2:

Nah, you got to make me Google it. Hold on.

Speaker 1:

Bro, it's Tiana Taylor bro On the original.

Speaker 2:

No.

Speaker 1:

And Rihanna on the remix.

Speaker 2:

It's not Tiara Thomas. Oh shit, yeah it well bro, I'm familiar Rihanna's on the remix, but no, it will. Brother, I'm familiar Brianna's on the remix, but no, it's not Tiana.

Speaker 1:

I'm familiar with your game. Excuse me, tierra, thomas. Sorry to slight you, shadi. Well, I done heard that one Tiana Taylor song that Kanye produced the video and she was like it was like a workout video. I have seen it. I heard that song, but other than that, hey, I take your word for it. Love what y'all doing, though I think it's smart to, like you said, capitalize on what's big right now. Aaron Pierce, you know Aaron is it Pierce or Pierre?

Speaker 2:

Oh, it's Pierre, my bad, I keep thinking of the former linebacker for the Giants.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, pierre, my bad Appreciate you. Nah, nah. I said Aaron Pierce, and then my mind went to somebody that wasn't Mufasa.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I went to Antonio Pierce my bad. Every time I say it's Aaron Pierre, my bad.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, pierre. I mean, like I said, y'all dating now. That's your world. Y'all got some shit. Y'all got some shit going. Respect it, do your thud fizzle. But I think that the imagery in the album trailer like she shows off she's married to somebody else and shit goes sideways. I want to hear what you're going to say about Shump on here. That's also in the news.

Speaker 2:

Do you think Shump's going to get a bar in the album?

Speaker 1:

He's going to get a mean subliminal. I don't think she's going to come off as much to say his name.

Speaker 2:

I'm definitely not going toliminal. I don't think she gonna come off as much to say his name. But yeah, no, I'm definitely not gonna say that. I'm trying. I'm thinking that's a good point. I guess I was thinking about her and her happy place, but maybe she does start the album out talking about going through some trials and tribulations in reference in the divorce with Sean. I ain't thinking about that, that's possible.

Speaker 1:

We'll, we'll, we'll, uh, we'll hear about it for sure, because they how they do music now, well, music can't even be out for for a whole 12 hours before they got the whole YouTube video on what everything mean.

Speaker 2:

Bruh, thanks, but the sad part about it is people are breaking down in the first 12 hours but in 12 days later nobody be talking about the album, no more.

Speaker 1:

That's true too.

Speaker 2:

Bro, music goes so fast now.

Speaker 1:

It gotta be a banger for it to last, though.

Speaker 2:

Bro, you used to consent on an album. You used to wait. Well, at least me, wait. Go to the store, meet K-Markets. That's where I work. Go to K-Markets, grab the album. Go eat in Best Buy, listen, work. Go to Kmart grab the album. Go to Best Buy, listen to the album, sit with it, play it a couple times and then try and enjoy it.

Speaker 2:

Now you be scrolling on TikTok or even Facebook Reels or whatever, and you can't do nothing but avoid the breakdowns, even if you try to Next thing. You know, like I said, album it moves so quick. Music moves so quick nowadays you can't. If you don't listen to it two or three times in that first weekend, you ain't gonna get back to it. I don't know if that's the way our minds work now or how to go. I don't know. I don't know. But yeah, shout out to tiana. Shout out to up here. Shout out to sean. I'm excited acting. He's getting in his acting bag. Still, I think it's the shot, I think he's on the shot. So shout out to sean I thought he died.

Speaker 1:

You know what? Never mind yeah I'm pretty sure his character got killed.

Speaker 2:

I could be wrong, but right now, bro, I just thought I seen him on tiktok look speaking of t, but I just thought I seen him on TikTok Speaking of TikTok. I thought I just seen him in some.

Speaker 1:

I think that was an older clip. I'm pretty sure Brad did not make it out of the last season he was in, but I ain't gonna lie, they brought back somebody else that was supposed to be dead too. That nigga just walked up out of nowhere. I also don't watch the Chi either, so don't quote me on none of this.

Speaker 2:

Okay. Well, I know he's going to be rapping, so shout out to.

Speaker 1:

But yeah, shout out to Shump either way my dog Nick's tape.

Speaker 2:

OG with it. The Chi yeah, you right, he was in the Chi 2018-2024. Yeah, you're right, he was in the Shines 2018-2024.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, he didn't make it, it's cool.

Speaker 2:

Maybe he got something else coming. Hopefully he got more shit coming. So this next thing we're going to talk about, I want to clarify and make sure it's clear this is speculation. This is reacting to something that's possibly true, that we saw on the internet. We ain't got no confirmation.

Speaker 1:

Say hold on, don't go to it no, no, I was trying to think what you were talking about.

Speaker 2:

I I knew oh, okay, okay, okay, uh. We ain't got no. We're just reacting to what the possibility is. We want to make that clear before we get into this story. We're dealing with what, if Actually we're going to ask the question about how should this be handled if it was the case, or, vice versa, who?

Speaker 2:

There are stories going around that Vanessa Bryan is pregnant. There's also rumors that she might be. There's a rumor that she's married to another man. It's been five years since Kobe and her daughter lost their lives in the helicopter crash. Again, this is speculation, this is rumors. We do not know this to be true. So let's not answer the question about Vanessa.

Speaker 2:

Let's answer this question in a very generic form. At what point is it okay to move on after you lost the love? I'm going to go, then you go ahead, claire. I'm going to go, then you go ahead, claire. At some point you do have to move on. I don't think you can put a time frame on it. I think it's when your heart heals and when your mind is ready for it. You can't put a time frame on it, but people like in this situation, people are judging Vanessa if she was to be pregnant again. If, let's say, it's another young lady. You can't judge somebody for wanting to live their life, like, how long are they supposed to be alone? People do want that companionship. They have wants and needs. Yes, their person is gone, but God has a plan for everybody. From my perspective, you know what I mean.

Speaker 1:

Don't put that on God, bro.

Speaker 2:

Hold on, bro, you know what I'm saying Look bro, god got a plan, god got a plan. I mean, put that on God, bro, hold on bro. No, but I'm saying God, look bro, god got a plan, god got a plan.

Speaker 1:

I mean I understand God's plan. It's a song, I knew it very well.

Speaker 2:

I'm saying, I'm saying we we nah hold on, I can't let you get that one off now I gotta get that one off, bro. It's my business, man.

Speaker 1:

I mean yeah, from your perspective yeah, that's what I said. Slow it down bro.

Speaker 2:

From my perspective, god has a plan and God might not want this person to be alone for the rest of their life. It's just life, bro. You can't expect somebody to be. They lose their loved one and they're supposed to be single for the rest of their life. That's just asking somebody who got dumped, y'all got divorced, y'all ain't making it. You got to be single for the rest of your life. That's not for anybody to ask. So I don't think it should be no shame and no disrespect on and nobody just decide to move on when they take, because you're going to have to lose your life for it. So you shouldn't be judging them. That's my thoughts.

Speaker 1:

Alright, now I'm going to say that if Shadi's pregnant, I mean it's her business, your body, your choice to do what you want. That's cool. But I don't know, man, that's kind of a slippery slope to me and I feel like it's only because I'm speaking on the fact of her. I know we're's only because, like I'm speaking on the fact of her.

Speaker 2:

I know we not doing that, but yeah, because you know we got to protect our brand.

Speaker 1:

We do. I'm saying, though, like somebody of her caliber, that's low, okay, low key bro, like God forbid something happen to Barack. I'm looking at Michelle sideways, if she step out with something new.

Speaker 2:

I don't think that's fair.

Speaker 1:

It's not fair at all. It's a double standard, because if something was to happen to Michelle and Barack stepped out with something new, we'd be cool with it. You think so? I think I would. The only way I feel like I wouldn't be okay with is if she was white.

Speaker 2:

I don't think, let me tell you, I don't think the women would be cool, the women wouldn't be cool with it, but the niggas would, though. I'm saying, bro, the same thing, vanessa, get right now. I think men wouldn't be cool with it either. Nah, bro, I think it would be the same. It might not be for you, but it would be the same for everybody.

Speaker 1:

Okay, me personally. Yes, we'd be saying the same thing. Niggas would be like man, I just want Rock to be happy. We'd be calling him Rock at this point. I just want Rock to be happy. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, he was with Michelle for a long time, but I just want dude to live his life. I hear you, but I just want a dude to you know.

Speaker 2:

Live his life. I agree.

Speaker 1:

Okay, maybe not Barack. Let me go a little less drastic. Okay, d-wade and Gabby. Okay, I feel like when I look at Gabrielle Union sideways, let's not use celebrities. I'm saying, bro, if you use regular people, the regular people, that's different, that's way different.

Speaker 2:

I don't think it's different. The celebrities are just people. They just got a little more. They got more followers on Instagram.

Speaker 1:

They regular people too, nah bro I think I done seen it, I done seen it. So I mean, it is what it is.

Speaker 2:

Hey, you got to live your life Shit.

Speaker 1:

The next nigga bitch get fucked every day. I mean your bitch getting fucked while she's alive. It is what it is at this point you alive and well, and she out here, you know, doing whatever she do. She couldn't wait for you to be dead.

Speaker 2:

I hate to say it like that, but I'm saying Nah, I'm saying we using regular people.

Speaker 1:

I'm saying bro, you was already getting knocked off either way.

Speaker 2:

Too far bro. You went too far. Chill bro, nah bro.

Speaker 1:

We have to use the celebrities in this point, bro, because I feel like at some point there's a tier of celebrity that we looking at like all right that's acceptable to do nah, I don't think celebrity make a difference from my perspective.

Speaker 2:

I don't think celebrity make a difference. You wouldn't look at D-Way sideways if he moved on, just like I wouldn't look at Tom up the street for moving on. Only way I'm going to look at you sideways is if you moved on in like two months. That's the only time I'm'm gonna look at you sideways is if you moved up, moved on to like two months. That's the only time I'm gonna look at you.

Speaker 1:

Okay, what if it's immediately though?

Speaker 2:

okay that's what I'm saying. Two months to immediately, yeah, I'm gonna look at you sideways, but if it's like eight months to a year or two years, nah, I ain't looking at you sideways, like you gotta live your life nah, we looking at I'm, I think I think if it, you know, vanessa, if you were to partake in that, you know she was to partake in that.

Speaker 1:

I'm still looking at her sideways because I just read the MSN and I shouldn't have did that, because it says she's pregnant. She's allegedly could be speculated to be pregnant by a 27 year old NBA player. We don't know, that's what that and it said a 27-year-old. Nba player.

Speaker 2:

No, we don't know.

Speaker 1:

That's what it said. 27-year-old Bro, I almost went to the Lakers roster real quick. All right, bro, chill. I almost went to the Lakers roster because I'm like all right man, hey, I'm being a little too specific, like I don't really know some shit. Now I'm really looking. All right man, I'm being a little too specific, like I don't really know some shit. Now I'm really looking at that nigga sideways, whoever he may be or could be, you know because why you step. I mean, I get it, I've seen her but you stepping on Kobe's wife.

Speaker 2:

Hey bro, they don't know, we don't know.

Speaker 1:

No, I'm saying though, bro, like at some point, we know, let's just call a spade a spade, bro, we know women, bro, at some point we gotta start looking at these niggas and being like, hey, man, a little too far for you. Kobe's wife hey Look, I get what, bro? She's an unstable creature, bruh. I respect her for staying strong this long and she's allowed to move on bruh. She is Okay okay.

Speaker 2:

I'm starting to change my stance.

Speaker 1:

She is allowed to move on.

Speaker 2:

It's been five years, but the nigga that stepped on her.

Speaker 1:

Oh, you's a grimy-ass, nigga bruh. Why would you do that to Kobe? It's been five years. But the nigga that stepped on her oh, you's a grimy-ass, nigga bruh. Why would you do that to Kobe? It's been five years. Nah, nah nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, bruh, that nigga was not going to. No, he didn't, that nigga was not going to Vanessa to be like hey, bruh, I really care about Vanessa Bryant. He said man, that's Kobe bitch. Man, he never said that that nigga grew up a Clippers fan.

Speaker 2:

Lame-ass, nigga All right, but you're going too far. If a man—.

Speaker 1:

Let me pull up the roster. Man, Y'all got me messed up.

Speaker 2:

All right, but we're not pulling up the roster. If a man goes up to Vanessa and attempts to talk to Vanessa, he's not thinking, hey, I'm going to get back at Kobe, that's not. He's not thinking, hey, I'm going to get back at Coach. That's not what he's thinking. He just seen an attractive woman and that's just the life he live. We don't know. Like you said, that story is speculated. It might be a Lakers player, it might not even be a basketball player, it might be somebody in the financial field that don't know nothing about Coach. So we don't know and we ain't going to put no smut on nobody's name. So don't say nobody on this roster.

Speaker 1:

I'm not going to say anybody, I'm just going to pull it up and look I'm saying bro, no bro, I'm not respecting no nigga that stepped on Kobe's wife after he died the way he died.

Speaker 2:

Bro, what if she stepped? If she stepped and they had the dude stealing her wrong would she step?

Speaker 1:

I don't understand what we talking about, bro, Low-key bro.

Speaker 2:

Like you got to. Just no people do it every day, bro. She got a life to live too. Everybody got a life to live. People don't want to live it alone.

Speaker 1:

I feel it you don't step to no good, bro, after a while like, well, I don't know where I'm from. You feel me it's a hierarchy bro. You respect the OGs. I mean, I personally don't. You know what I'm saying. I don't respect no OG bro. I ain't got no OG. You, the most OG I got. You feel me, you ain't my OG, but that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 2:

That's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 1:

That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 2:

Like hey bro, look, I ain't old enough to be your OG, bro, I ain't that old.

Speaker 1:

You don't do that, bro, I'm not going to say no names. You don't do that, bro. Ooh, ooh, I'm not gonna say no names come on with the half out. Let me look at the Clippers roster bro just to make sure you said you already looked at it.

Speaker 2:

I said, nah, I'm not gonna look at it. Look my name, bennett, I ain't need it, I don't care, look from my looking at it.

Speaker 1:

Look, my name's Bennett.

Speaker 2:

I ain't in it, I don't care. Look for my, for my looking. Hey, she deserve to live her life.

Speaker 1:

Not if it's this bum ass nigga that I just looked up. Alright, bro, I was just saying I'm not looking at nobody in particular, I'm just saying in general, and it's the dude on here that I think it might be honestly, but today's edition of Hot Thoughts is brought to you by Black Cherry. Yeah, I'm still on that. It's not even a, it's sneaky, it's a sneaky weed. That shit get up on you, pounce on you. Ah shit. This nigga done burned his hand, um, ah shit this nigga done.

Speaker 1:

Burned his hand no, bro, I done lit the wrong end of the motherfucking blunt bro you hitting the liquor, trying to hit the liquor in the blunt.

Speaker 2:

Come on, bro, don't try to do both bro. I got plans what you said, what you said shit.

Speaker 1:

Um, I had a, a thought the other day and I was like you know this would make for a good segment. Um, I had to call him. I'm gonna call him, uh, mad mama moments. Now, I don't know if any of y'all ever pissed y'all mama off, or you know I had to call them. I'm going to call them mad mama moments. Now, I don't know if any of y'all ever pissed y'all mama off or, you know, made her mad. I know y'all have because you know it's inevitable they do that. But I thought of one back when I was cool. I was like my mama used to get mad about crazy shit all the time. It don't matter, bro, low-key, I really think you was just born to trip. Now she got her own problems. It is what it is. It's fine she trip because that's part of genetics. They do that. It's fine it happens. Today's mama moment, I want to say it was back in 2009.

Speaker 1:

We were down in Florida doing our Christmas shop and our school shop. That's what we used to do. She used to take us out. She was like I don't want y'all looking like the rest of these raggedy ass kids. I'm going to take y'all out. So we go to Florida and we do our school shop and you know we got all our shit from down here. So she gave us the bread, broke us off. I was like yo, you know, this is what you, this is, this is what I'm giving you to go out here and get your school clothes for the next year. All right, cool. So you know, I did the responsible thing. I got what I was supposed to get, got this, got that Pair of shoes. You know I'm cool.

Speaker 1:

We walked past the jersey store. I'm like I need one of those. I need one. I mean I'm going to wear it to school. I had to get that Minnesota fresh-ass Brett Favre jersey Crisp. I said I need that, man, I need that for sure. So they, you know we split up, we walk. You know we walk in a separate direction. I go and get it. When I link up back with them, she's like what you got. I unveiled a jersey. Oh boy, y'all ever seen that bat out of hell, man, please, that lady flipped out. Why is you wasting your money on a jersey that you can't even? I mean, is you going to wear this to school every day? Ooh, I know, I'm not going to wear it every day.

Speaker 1:

What are you talking about? Like you tweaking like this is this is something I'm going to wear, though Like you feel me, it's my first. It wasn't my first jersey, but I'm like. You know this. This Brett doing Fresh-ass Brett Favre number four jersey in the Minnesota. I'm surprised I found this bitch. I'm surprised they had one left in my size. She's going off, bro. Like when I say like mad, like on a scale of one to ten on the mama mad meter she was about an eight. Crazy thing. Is I still have money left over to shop with you tweaking about this? I mean I might have spent $100 on the jersey but, I, still got the jersey Like what's with you, dog.

Speaker 2:

You better still have that jersey, man, it's you cat.

Speaker 1:

Hey, it's a lot of jerseys. I don't have the cat. It's a lot of jerseys I don't have the cat I had when we moved. I had a bunch of my shit in this in a tub. So when we moved the cat wasn't used to the new environment so she was looking for shit that she was familiar with and was pissing on it, man. So I had a whole tub of jerseys. I want to say all my Knicks jerseys, all my snapbacks. Hey, hurt bro. I was like going through the shit eventually, like one day I was going through it. I was like man, this shit's been like this shit's been like ammonia man. And then you find the turd. Ah man, I was hurt, boy.

Speaker 1:

I was hurt boy yeah you got to throw all that out, bro. I ain't going to lie, I did try to wash it. I tried to wash it. It didn't work, so I just eventually had to throw it out. I was like, yeah, that's crazy. That shit was crazy, bro. I'm getting mad thinking about it. But yeah, I don't know, the Brett Favre did make it. I used to treat the football jerseys differently than the basketball jerseys. The basketball jerseys was really just throwaways. I used to throw them bitches anywhere. I didn't really have respect on their name. I should have All the snapbacks as well. I paid really good money for them snapbacks. I had a turquoise blue Knicks one, bro. It was the strapback Leather snake skin. Turquoise snake skin. Man, I ain't never been so mad a day in my life. Rip Big Penn. But God damn man.

Speaker 1:

Cat got you Cat, got me, bro. The cat had my tongue. Bro, I couldn't do nothing to it, bro, I couldn't catch that.

Speaker 2:

Oh shit Time I made my mama mad. I got Bro. I'm trying to think. I'm trying to think of something, Something that I ain't said. I'm just going to tell the same story. It's been a minute, it's been some years. I'm going to tell the same story.

Speaker 1:

If you know, you know.

Speaker 2:

Man, my mama was out one night. I had a little situation come over to the crib. My mama was out one night. I had a little situation come over to the crib while my mama was out, uh-oh. So, look man, it got a little heated in the bathroom. It was round two. Me and Shorty was in the bathroom. Hey, I was linked. I was linked, I was laying on my back. Shorty were in the bathroom, I was laying on my back with my butt on the sink. She was in front, she was going to work, she was going to town. She went to town a little too much. The whole sink fell down and hit the ground. Cool, I proceeded to finish, because I mean, once the sink's already down, what you want me to do Ain't no water spilling everywhere. It wasn't one of those Like, the sink just fell completely down. So we just went to the living room. We finished.

Speaker 1:

I said all right, you got to go Cool Sink's on the ground.

Speaker 2:

Mom just came home I said Ma broke the sink. I ain't even let her get to the bathroom. Ma, I broke the sink. What would you do? I was in there dancing. You was dancing and you broke the sink. Yeah, Ma, I was in there dancing. I had a song playing, because the song actually was. The song was played in the back grill. It was Meek Mill and Rick Ross. I'm a Boss. The song actually was played in the back row. I was in there dancing to it and then the sink broke. The sink broke. I think that's the last whooping I got. I was 17,. 18, not 17. Look, I'm 17, bro, I'm getting the whooping and I couldn't fight back. But if you ask me, was it worth it? Yeah, it was worth it. We're a ballot crash show, but if you ask me was it worth it?

Speaker 1:

yeah, it was worth it. I wear a valet, crash out but I broke the scene you broke the scene. That's a valet crash out nah. I personally think my mama's crash out was not valet over a jersey I don't have, I still have. I mean I wore. I wore, you know enough, over a jersey I don't have, I still have. I mean I wore it, you know enough, during football season. I mean, after a while you don't really wear football jerseys just outside of football season, not like that anyways, maybe during the summertime but when it got cold out February, march.

Speaker 1:

I'm not going to keep wearing no jersey, man, every week. These niggas know who I rap for.

Speaker 2:

Nah, you got to wear a jersey every week, boy.

Speaker 1:

For a minute. I did, though I did have to put it on every week, you know, take it off because I got a shirt on up under it, but I did rock it for a smooth minute. Shout out to Brett Fav Ford, though, man.

Speaker 2:

You ain't not shouting out Brett Ford man. He got her stealing money from people. Hey Brett, wrap this shit up. Brett's talking about some shouting out of Brett Ford. I don't care if he play for your team or not, bro.

Speaker 1:

My favorite player, man.

Speaker 2:

He got her stealing money from the pool.

Speaker 1:

Your favorite player is a thief. I know a lot of thieves man.

Speaker 2:

Hey bro, do we shout them out on this pod?

Speaker 1:

We just shout out Offset, really.

Speaker 2:

We didn't shout out Offset. We talked about Offset. It's two different things. That's two different things. You never give Offset a pass. He a broadhead. He got $32 million in the bank. He's worth different things. You never give an offset of pay. He'll grow that. He got $32 million in the bank.

Speaker 1:

He's worth $32. He ain't got $32.

Speaker 2:

All right, bro, he can find a way to get to $28.

Speaker 1:

And how much of that did Quavo get?

Speaker 2:

Nah, bro. That's all he is what you talking about, bro. He still get, he still get, and that's the thing. He still getting money from these. He still gonna be making money. People ain't gonna stop playing these Migos songs. He got enough solo songs that he gonna be making money we talking about Nah Ain't no way he should be getting some spouse support.

Speaker 1:

I think so. You crazy I might say, like I said, I'm not mad at him for asking Do he deserve it? I mean, you cheated on her first so does he deserve spousal support?

Speaker 2:

look bro you out here cheating on this woman. But you want this woman to pay for you, to live you the reason the marriage ain't going right.

Speaker 1:

I miss my grandma too. Alright, bro them to pay for you to live You're the reason the marriage ain't going right.

Speaker 2:

I miss my grandma too.

Speaker 1:

Alright, bro. With that being said, this has been another episode of the Mixed Vibes Podcast, your favorite amateur podcast. Do that shit really work? No, both my grandmas are alive.

Speaker 2:

That stuff do not work.

Speaker 1:

I ain't never been in a position to use that I miss my dad type shit. You can find us on Apple, spotify, pandora wherever you get your podcasts, you feel me, they fuck with us on Pandora for real Heavy. You hit the Instagram, facebook, the Twitter.

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